+ Commemoration of All Souls

Tuesday November 1, 2011

Let’s keep in touch.

Readings: Wisdom 3:1-9 Psalm 23:1-6 I Corinthians 15:51-57 John 6:37-40

And this is the will of the one who sent me, that I should not lose anything of what he gave me, but that I should raise it on the last day. [John 6:38]

I think of them every day and speak with them often about the joys and challenges of the day. I’m referring to my mom and dad and a host of others who have had a positive impact on my life. The list is long. Oh, yes, mindful of that axiom, “send bouquets to the living,” I experience just a tinge of guilt about not having done enough for them while they were living—acts of appreciation and gratitude, acknowledgments of what they meant to me and so on.

Folks in the ‘Catholic world’ will record the names of their loved ones who have passed on in the ‘book of memories’ that has been placed in or near the sanctuary so that they can be remembered at the daily celebration of the Eucharist during this, the month of All Souls.

Why do we observe this practice? Most do so because they want to be sure that their loved ones are not forgotten. Others, I suppose because they want to make sure that their loved ones have been or will soon be in the eternal embrace of God.

Between you and me, I believe that the time and space between death and the welcome into the loving embrace of the eternal God is very brief. I’m uncomfortable with the notion that we need to pass through ‘fire’ or any place of torture before we encounter God’s embrace. Purgatory is a more a metaphor, I suppose, for the cleansing of the spirit – a sort of hand-washing before taking our place at the eternal banquet table. What person—saint or sinner—in the face of infinite beauty and love and goodness and compassion is not ‘transformed,’ indeed, absorbed into the very heart of and soul of eternal love?

So, keep in touch today with all your loved ones—even those who didn’t always see things your way. Entrust them to the loving God who loved them into being and who we believe has now loved them into eternity.

But remember to send a bouquet of kindness and appreciation to the living.


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