Tuesday June 5, 2007

+ 9th Week in Ordinary Time

He’s a nice guy but he has some blind spots.

Readings: Tobit 2:9-14 Psalm 112:1-2, 7-9 Mark 12:13-17

On the night of Pentecost, after I had buried he dead, I, Tobit, went in to my courtyard to sleep next to the courtyard wall. My face was uncovered because of the heat. I did not know there were birds perched on the wall above me, till their warm droppings settle in my eyes causing cataracts.” [Tobit 2:9-10]

The Tobit story continues with some amusement. Similar to the Book of Jonah, it is akin to a biblical cartoon—an amusing story with a moral that brings a smile to our face and a lesson to our heart.

Anyhow, my good friend Bishop Casey was a wise man too with keen insights in to human behavior. I think I mentioned that one of his many quips in the midst of a crisis was, “Avoid the acute angle.” In other words, don’t over react to the situation and don’t allow yourself to get trapped by the indiscriminate remark of another person.

One of his other ‘quips’ was “He’s a nice guy but he has some blind spots.” In other words, even ‘paradigms of virtue’ are not perfect in every respect.

Yesterday we read about Tobit’s dogged commitment to integrity, justice and the care of the poor—even to the extent that he would interrupt his meal to bury the dead. However, today, he accuses his wife of stealing a goat! In his blindness and spiritual narcissism, he failed to appreciate her virtue evidenced in the gift of the goat given to her as an extra reward for her fine service to her employer. He accused her of stealing the goat!

Even in our pursuit of righteousness and integrity, we can easily adopt a self-righteous attitude and a spiritual narcissism and faith to see the good in others.

We need to maintain an openness in our ‘engagement’ with others and not jump the gun on judgment until we have all the facts and even when we have all the facts straight we need to be cautious about allowing our biases to cloud or clog our reasoning assigning false motivations to others.


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