Daily Scripture

Saturday December 22, 2007

+ December 22nd in Advent

Wisdom knows when to speak and when to be silent.

Readings: 1 Samuel 1:24-28 Response: 1 Sm 2:1, 4-8 Luke 1:46-56

I prayed for this child, and the Lord granted my request. Now I, in turn, give him to the Lord; as long as he lives, he shall be dedicated to the Lord.” [1 Samuel 27-28]

My soul proclaims the greatness of the Lord; my spirit rejoices in God my savior. For he has looked upon his lowly servant.” [Luke 1:46-47]

For many of us now in our sixties, seventies, eighties and yes, nineties, we remember the days when children were to ‘seen but not heard’ especially if guests were present. Though my dear mom was surely compassionate when my disappointments or tears warranted a sympathetic response, we were expected to be at our best when the situation demanded it—in school, in church and wherever our behavior would reflect on our ‘upbringing.’

The pendulum swung to the other extreme after the war years. Baby boomers and their children were told that they are special and that indeed, they had a right to be heard. Seminars on leadership placed a heavy accent on assertiveness training and getting one’s way in the public sphere.

I’m not convinced that being seen and not heard should be considered a character quality but neither am I convinced that getting one’s way is always healthy. The missing ingredient in character development is a healthy dose of humility. Keeping one’s mouth shut when the occasion calls for a voice of reason and sanity does not contribute to humility but neither does shooting one’s mouth off just to be heard or worse, to gain power or prestige.

As we draw near to the feast, the Scriptures draw our attention to the ‘lowliness’ of the great biblical figures who recognized who they were in God’s sight. Indeed, they provide a balance and a perspective that surely provide a corrective for the least and the greatest among us.

Last week we celebrated the 100th birthday of my oldest relative, a second cousin. We asked her to account for her longevity. She responded, “Knowing when to speak and when to listen.” She is a wise woman. Her name is ‘Mary.’

Her namesake, Mary, of course is the preeminent model of humility. She and Joseph modeled that rare quality for their son, Jesus.


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