Thursday August 12, 2010

+ 19th Week in Ordinary Time

Shall I say it again, “What goes around comes around?”

Readings: Ezekiel 12:1-12 Psalm 78:56-59, 61-62 Matthew 18:21—19:1

Jesus said, “you wicked servant! I forgave you your entire debt because you begged me to. Should you not have had pity on your fellow servant?” [Matt 18:32-33]

Forgiveness is no doubt one of the most challenging of all imperatives. There is no doubt that the key to inner peace is forgiveness—not just being forgiven but extending forgiveness.

How do you tell a battered wife to forgive her abusive husband? In fact, many battered women have forgiven with the hope that the abuse would stop but forgiveness has been interpreted as permission for the abuse to continue.

The servant in the gospel story today was an abusive man. He begged forgiveness of the master while holding his fellow servant to strict justice. It didn’t work for the master and it won’t work for anyone.

Forgiveness of course is a process that may or may not end in full reconciliation. It’s a time consuming process but it can and does bring healing to the offended as well as to the offender.

Abusive behavior is epidemic in our society—not only sexual abuse but also the abuse of power and control over others. It has been documented in the corporation—demanding executives with excessive expectations for their employers. It surely is obvious among some politicians who are willing to destroy their opponents in order to win a vote.

The punishment of the unforgiving servant described in this parable is quite harsh. Yup, what goes around comes around!


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